Matthias Köhler I Trauerredner

Due to his sympathetic and empathetic manner, I can highly recommend Mr. Köhler as a funeral speaker. He responds patiently and flexibly to changing circumstances, shows a lot of sensitivity in the funeral talk and at the same time gives valuable suggestions. Mr. Köhler also gave a very dignified and personal eulogy and sensitively addressed the various facets of the deceased's life.

Dear Mr. Köhler, I would like to thank you very much, also on behalf of our families.
We and our mourners were very impressed by your eulogy. You made a very pleasant impression on me as soon as I met you. Thanks to your help and empathy, my husband had a eulogy that was very personal and authentic. I always felt that I was in good hands with you. You are such a great person. It was nice to get to know you.
Thank you once again.

Mr. Köhler looked after the family very emphatically, sensitively and competently, as well as the farewell of our dear husband and family father. The eulogy was very personal and embellished with many anecdotes from the life of the deceased, which both the family and the mourners were able to remember. The response was nothing but positive. Many thanks for the great support on this difficult journey.

Very empathetic and open-minded funeral talk. Extremely friendly and quick contact. All questions and uncertainties were clarified.

I am glad to have found Matthias Köhler through the website of the Ruheforst Eichenzell. Matthias convinced me right from the first conversation. Don't be afraid of the seemingly endless questionnaire. You are not only filling it out for Matthias, but also for your favorite person and, last but not least, for yourself. You may find it difficult at first, but it will do you good to review your life with your deceased loved one. I have opened my heart to describe my beloved husband and my life with him as accurately as possible. I even told things that very few people knew about us. The result is a questionnaire that I can also give to our children and stepchildren so that they can remember the story of the great love of their father and stepfather.
Matthias used this questionnaire and a very intensive funeral talk to create an extraordinary speech that I could not have imagined being more beautiful. Matthias is very considerate and empathetic. Our mourners were very impressed by the organization of the funeral service and the way he delivered his sensitive speech. He made us all cry, but also made us laugh when he told us some anecdotes. We particularly enjoyed the moment of reflection, where everyone said their own goodbyes and thought about what they would like to say to my beloved husband on his last journey.
Matthias not only has a heart of gold, it is also set with many diamonds. In my opinion, the speech for Wolfgang is a one-carat diamond that has found its place there.
I can warmly and unreservedly recommend Matthias, even though I would have preferred to have met him at my wedding ceremony with Wolfgang.
THANK YOU, MATTHIAS....

Dear Mr. Köhler,

On behalf of my family, I would like to thank you very much for the moving, sensitive and modern eulogy you gave at my father's funeral. Your words were comforting and helped to honor the memories of his life in a loving way.

Your ability to describe "Matze"'s personality as accurately as if he had been an old friend of yours, while offering comfort, helped us greatly during this difficult time. Your warm words made the ceremony a dignified farewell, in which the focus was not on the grief and loss, but rather on the many beautiful memories that brought a smile to our faces more than once during the funeral service.

Thank you once again for your professional and sensitive support during the ceremony and also in the preceding funeral talk.

On behalf of the family and all friends, I can only give you my highest recommendation!

"Came as a stranger, left as a confidant"

With best regards,
Julia A.

After the very first telephone contact, I knew I had made the right choice. This compassion, this warm, reassuring voice, this empathy gripped me immediately. The questionnaire with about 100 questions about my wife's life and spiritual legacy initially frightened me, but in retrospect I am grateful for the complexity, which gave me the opportunity to look again, intensively, at my wife's youth and our life together. The questionnaire was also helpful for me, as it gave me something to do for several days. The personal conversation with Mr. Köhler was very pleasant for me, if one can speak of pleasant at all in this situation. In any case, Mr. Köhler's calm and compassionate manner enabled him to bring to light events that I would never have remembered myself.
The eulogy at the funeral was a tribute to my wife's life and character and made me cry again and again but also smile from time to time. Mr. Köhler was always professional and left after the funeral service just as unobtrusively as he had arrived.
For me, Mr. Köhler and his speech were a comfort, despite my terrible loss, and I will recommend him to others out of conviction.

He came as a stranger and left as a friend.

Matthias Köhler takes a lot of time and convinces with calm, empathy and offers advice and support in a very unobtrusive way. These are all character traits that are greatly appreciated by grieving relatives. Matthias Köhler is genuinely interested in getting to know the person he is accompanying on his last journey in order to make the farewell as beautiful and dignified as possible for all those remembering him. I am convinced that my father was watching from heaven and was more than satisfied with his farewell ceremony. Thank you, Matthias!

Mr. Köhler impressed me personally with his empathetic manner as a funeral speaker.
The questionnaire he sent looked very extensive at first glance, but I found that my grief work was greatly supported by dealing with the questions.
In a very sensitive conversation, Mr. Köhler then went through the questionnaire with our contributions with us once again to be sure that he had understood our answers correctly in order to build his eulogy on them.
The eulogy itself was delivered by Mr. Köhler with what felt like a free hand, which is a clear indication that Mr. Köhler had really immersed himself in the life and manner of my deceased wife, as if he had known her personally.
We received a lot of feedback from the mourners about how dignified the funeral was, and Mr. Köhler played a major part in this.
I can recommend Mr. Köhler without reservation and with a clear conscience.

After a few moments in the funeral conversation, one already had the feeling of knowing Mr. Köhler for many years. Simply a very sympathetic person who takes time for the relatives. The positive impression was surpassed by his unique eulogy.
Thank you for the last journey of our late father.

We got to know Matthias as a very empathetic, warm and understanding person and we felt
and have felt in good hands and comfortable with him at all times.

In his very appreciative memorial speech, he impressively described the life of our mother, mother-in-law, with the right words and a lot of
the life of our mother, mother-in-law, grandmother and great-grandmother with the right words and a lot of empathy.
personal sketched and thereby released many beautiful memories.

Thank you very much for that !!!

Matthias Köhler has not only met our expectations as a funeral speaker, but exceeded them! For the preparation and execution of my father's farewell, we award 100% of the possible points. Since all conversations took place personally in our private environment, we cannot judge the last 5 points of the customer service category. We can highly recommend Matthias Köhler as a funeral speaker. Christian Weiß, 01.09.2023

The funeral of my husband was as I or he would have wished.
It was very authentic.
The words chosen were mega accurate.
We implemented some of Köhler's ideas in the comforter, which was well received by everyone.
The funeral was very moving and despite the many tears, one could also smile.
It was a memorial service, where the time with the deceased was in the foreground.

Matthias is very cordial and responded to all wishes in the best possible way.

I was very moved by how personally Mr. Köhler traced the path of life of the deceased - without "pathos" but with a certain loving lightness but still full of seriousness, so that the deceased was once again experienced very personally by family and friends - partly with known, partly with unknown and (positively) surprising and also cheerful things. Even the words of farewell at the grave, which Mr. Köhler read on behalf of other people who did not want to or could not speak personally, Mr. Köhler spoke very appreciatively and full of empathy. Thanks to Mr. Köhler, everyone could understand how much the loss of the deceased hurts and how great our gratitude and appreciation for him is. Especially for the family, this was certainly a help in saying goodbye.

Recently I was able to experience Mr. Köhler as a funeral speaker! It was the first time I experienced a funeral without a pastor! I found it very impressive and learned much more about the deceased through this way!!! It was very personal! Mr. Köhler conducted the funeral service very confidently, sympathetically and very dignified! His voice carries wonderfully, it is very soothing yes- and there was plenty of room for thoughts of the deceased! I also loved that there was the opportunity to say words to the family themselves and that Mr. Koehler recited the hosts!!! I enjoyed it very much! Mr. Köhler is a very good choice for the accompaniment and moderation of a funeral service!

Mr. Köhler is a professional and also very compassionate person. He summarized and rendered the information from us in a way that was very pleasant for us.
Through his refreshing and sympathetic charisma, we were very well caught up in the funeral oration.
We were very satisfied and will definitely recommend him to others.

Mr. Matthias Köhler is a very sympathetic and empathetic person. In my grief and uncertainty, I was able to quickly gain trust in Mr. Köhler. I was able to give all the important and personal information about my late husband to Mr. Köhler without reservations and shyness, because I felt that they were well placed with him, and I was able to leave the execution of the funeral ceremony to him with full confidence, because I knew it would be good. And this was wonderful and very dignified for my late husband. I would choose Mr. Matthias Köhler as a funeral speaker again at any time and recommend him as such without reservation.

Dear Mr. Köhler,
I can only say thank you
- for your time during our first conversation
- for your empathy
- for your professionalism
- for the eulogy
it was all to the point. I was approached by many who found it very interesting what had been in his life. It has elicited a smile from some.

Again, many, many thanks