It took me a long time to even make a phone call to the counselors, as I am unfortunately a rather shy and reserved person. And after separating from my wife (15 years together, 10 married), this didn't make it any easier for me. Nevertheless, I am glad to have overcome myself, after the first few minutes I felt very comfortable and in good hands with the counselor Alex, I think his name was, we first went through my situation and then looked to see if there was anything that could be done (which of course I hoped for) Alex said yes, something can be done, but it won't be easy, because I would also have to work a lot on myself. After the interview, Alex gave me enough time to think about whether the coaching would be worthwhile for me. But I knew in my gut that I had to do it otherwise it wouldn't work out between me and my wife. The very next day, I got an appointment with my counselor Mirjam. The lady was really super nice. She also got me out of my hole quickly and now we're going to work on myself first and then get back in touch with my wife later. She said that if everything isn't in order with me, we don't even need to start. I'm already feeling much better. I have the feeling that 2024 will be a very good year for me. Even if I still don't know whether I'll get my wife back, it's already been worth it for me alone, thank you!
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