Tom Eiberger

It’s hard to put into words what Tom managed to stir up and resolve within me in just a single session.

I came to him at a point in my life when I had completely lost myself. I was functioning in certain ways, but inside there was nothing but emptiness.
The same questions kept circling in my head:

Who am I, really?
What defines me?
At what point am I even worth anything as a man?
Am I truly walking my own path right now, or am I just following my ego?

Despite my outward success, I was unhappy on the inside in the past.
I think many people know this feeling! 🤷🏻‍♂️
You feel this deep emptiness and try to numb it by simply doing even more, running even faster. Many know exactly what I’m talking about.

I finally wanted to understand why certain painful patterns from my past kept repeating themselves over and over again, and why, despite all my success, I was stuck right at this very point.

I’ve had a lot of experience with coaches in the past, but what Tom does is on a completely different level.
He doesn’t just scratch the surface; he takes genuine, undivided time, and you feel that immediately when you speak with him.
He doesn’t just listen—he truly sees you and has identified connections that I myself had successfully hidden from myself for years, and which is why I was never able to change anything!

Through his incredibly honest, direct, and at the same time deeply appreciative manner, he took me by the hand and gave me the courage to look right into my own shadows, right where it hurts!!
Yep, it’s okay for it to hurt, and that’s a good thing 😅, instead of pushing it away or pretending it isn’t there like I usually do.
That’s exactly where, in the deepest shadows, my real transformation began.

It sounds unbelievable that so many years-old inner blocks could be released in just a single Zoom call. That’s exactly what I thought at the beginning!
But it happened 🙂

But what I value most about him as a person:

When I was completely emotionally shattered shortly after, he didn’t leave me alone.
He took time for me privately via WhatsApp and pulled me out of it.
That’s not something to be taken for granted!
That’s his true calling, and you can feel it immediately when you talk to him. 🙏❤️

He doesn’t tell you what you want to hear, like so many others out there who’ll sell you the next coffee table.
He’s honest, crystal clear, and consistent; he gets to the heart of things with painful precision, but always with one goal in mind:

That you find your way back to yourself.
The path back to myself—that sums it up perfectly! 💯

Now, step by step, I’m finding my way back to myself. But the most important thing is: I finally know and feel again that I’m on the right path.

For anyone who’s ready to face the truth, truly confront themselves, and finally break old, destructive patterns, I can wholeheartedly recommend him.

For me, this journey with him is priceless, and I will definitely continue on this path with him and recommend him to others!

Thank you, Tom.
Thank you for your honesty, your clarity, and your rare gift of seeing people in their deepest essence and truly making a difference ✨🙏🙂

You’re truly making a difference out there, and with your story, your experience, and your desire to help people, you’re one of the few in the field whom you can trust 100% and open up to ♾️🙏

So, do as I do and let yourself be surprised by what’s possible, and I wish you exactly that—the experience that can and will change everything for you 😉🤝

Thank you, Tom, for being you ❤️

I would recommend Tom to ANYONE who is serious about working on themselves through personal development and their own healing process. He isn’t just another “esoteric coach” who just wants to take money out of other people’s pockets; rather, he authentically embodies what he says and is a great role model for younger people as well, since he has already gone through a great deal himself despite his relatively young age and demonstrates a remarkable work ethic. He is honest, direct, and across all social strata, understanding and respectful, offering a safe, informal space to open up. However, he also voices what one’s own ego and unconscious shadows do not want to hear, and that is exactly what is needed for inner growth—because life is not all sunshine and rainbows, but also hard work and, above all, honesty with oneself —for this, you need a strong sparring partner who doesn’t just stroke the ego but, through targeted questions, exposes self-deception through self-reflection. For my part, I can say that within a few months of active daily work on myself, I was able to observe visible and measurable progress in some areas of my life, as well as a sense of letting go and healing in other areas. Thus, my investment in therapeutic support has more than paid off, providing significant leverage for future developments.

I started Self Mastery because I sensed that something within me had been lying dormant, something that had always been overshadowed by my external successes. Intuitively, I was searching for a deeper sense of connection and authenticity, and I no longer wanted to avoid that feeling of inadequacy. I longed for authenticity and knew that money couldn’t be the solution to everything.

Unfortunately, I spent a long time looking in the wrong places and believed that the more successful I became, the more fulfilled I would eventually feel. However, through Tom’s story and his background, I felt drawn to his message from the very beginning, even though I also sensed some inner resistance. After several attempts, I finally decided to take the plunge, thanks in part to the very trusting and transparent conversations we had beforehand. At that point, of course, I didn’t yet know what developments this decision would set in motion…

What convinces me most about Tom isn’t his expertise, but his ability to truly connect with people on a personal level. With his sensitive approach, he has consistently managed—ever since the first session—to break through my mental blocks and reach a deep, inner part of me. That is precisely where I see the true value of this work: reconnecting more deeply with myself and sharing this experience with others.

For me, Tom is the best possible partner to accompany and support me on this journey, as a mentor and cherished friend. With that in mind, I am very excited about the coming months and look forward to further breakthroughs together!

I’m really excited about working with Tom. What stands out to me most is that our conversations give me the space to make mistakes and to expose my false beliefs and certain reaction patterns. Tom reflects my behavior back to me and guides me toward self-awareness in areas where I’ve been blind. Our work together draws on sound depth psychology and can certainly be very uncomfortable at times. He has already guided me several times to the point of recognizing my own incompetence, and once I did that—once I realized where I had been deceiving myself all along and finally had the awareness to let go of it—I often found myself grinning from ear to ear, filled with gratitude for having grown beyond myself once again. Thanks to Tom, I was also able to examine values I had previously adopted simply for moral reasons and realize that these only have real value for me when grounded in genuine experience. My life has been less stressful since working with Tom, and I have learned to be a humble student of my own life.

For three years, I’ve been looking for a coach who could really see and understand me. And in Tom, I’ve found him.

In no time at all, we identified the areas I needed to work on and were able to resolve them very quickly.

Now I’m on the right track—my business is doing better, my life is better, I have more time for the important things, and above all, I know what they are and am moving straight ahead on my path.

Tom comes highly recommended, but only for those who truly want to work on themselves.

Tom is a highly sensitive person who has very special abilities and talents that penetrate the heart and the deepest part of the soul.

Through his clarity and depth of awareness, he uncovers incredibly precise patterns of behavior, inner shadows, fears and beliefs. Tom is a person you trust, someone you open your heart to and someone who holds the space and provides security and stability. He mirrored me extremely well and triggered truths in me that I had been putting off or pushing away for a very long time.

He is an absolute "Giver". A person who uncompromisingly passes on abundance and gratitude through his very special gift and whose aura brings about great changes in a short space of time.

An absolute recommendation!

Thank you Tom

I visited Tom in Mallorca and was surprised how much more intense and transformative the work on site was ... the Zoom sessions are an extreme help and yet it was on a whole other level in person.

For several weeks before the coaching, I felt apathetic and consequently no longer performed as a salesperson, which was actually my standard. This in turn brought me down even further.

We got to the bottom of this together on the very first day and were able to resolve this pattern. Tom has the special ability to see things that you don't recognize yourself. Even if you try to sell your own stories or excuses, he sees through it immediately and confronts you with it ... which is not always pleasant in the moment, but in retrospect ALWAYS the better way.

In my case, after the on-site event in Mallorca, I had absolute clarity again as to what triggered the apathy in my case and how I can free myself from emotional lows that sometimes seem insurmountable on my own.

I don't normally write reviews unless I'm unhappy, but as the visit with Tom really did help me a lot, I wanted to share it here too.

The sessions with Tom have helped me in a way I never thought possible. I got to know Tom during several group sessions and had no idea that we would meet again at exactly the right moment to discuss my issues in individual sessions.
I am quite open-minded, have previous experience with therapeutic support and thought that it would be the same or similar now, just with a different person, online and declared as coaching. Tom quickly showed me that I was very wrong in my assumption and applied his unique style to our conversations. My wonderfully self-built house of cards would probably have collapsed with others, but with Tom I was able to strengthen it and now know how I can continue to work on it in the future. It's fascinating how relaxed these conversations were and how much impact they still have in the end.

Tom doesn't sugarcoat anything. He also likes to tell you the truth, even if it is sometimes unpleasant for you (Speaking of: creating your own reality). I really appreciate that about him! He has a really great, warm way of getting that across.

I know that we will work together again at another time and I can recommend him and his work without reservation, both for teams and for my own private affairs.

I am grateful to have met Tom and for the great time with many magical moments 🦌✨️

I am doing VIP coaching with Tom Eiberger and am now in my fifth session with him. The individual input he has given me has reached me so much that I am already changing positively on the outside. My pronunciation, my vibe and my aura have become great - above all because I perceive myself, recognize more clearly what I really want, what defines me and what makes me happy.

My emotional blockages (triggers) in particular are becoming more and more unblocked, giving me more freedom, security and real fun in life again. I can heartily recommend Tom Eiberger! I have tried many coaching sessions that have only provided superficial relief - but no coaching has ever solved my problems as quickly and sustainably as Tom Eiberger's coaching. Thank you Tom!

Tom convinces as a coach and consultant with extraordinary clarity, precision and depth of awareness. His work not only creates insight, but also initiates genuine, sustainable change processes.

I was skeptical about Tom.

I had always watched his developments in recent years with interest.

But I was also skeptical.
Skeptical as to whether he really knows what he's talking about, whether he's someone you can trust or whether he's just another coach who wants to sell you his world as the right one.

After a 1-to-1 Mallorca trip where I spent a lot of time with Tom in person, I can say 100% that my skepticism was unfounded.

Tom sees and understands people incredibly well and can put himself in their shoes. And most importantly: he is not judgmental.

He helps you to better understand, classify and deal with yourself, your behavior, your goals, your feelings and your life circumstances.

In addition to the personal issues where Tom gave me a lot of clarity. It was also just a really cool time.

I would recommend Tom to friends and acquaintances without batting an eyelid.

I actually wanted to cancel...

I'm not the type to voluntarily ride in groups. Especially not to connect with strangers. I prefer to keep to myself. And that's exactly why I almost said no when Tom told me about his Self-Mastery Experience.

But somehow we made a kind of deal beforehand: if I win new clients with his help, I'll come to Mallorca with him. I thought to myself "why not?" - but more because of the business part. I had no idea what was actually in store for me.

Two new clients within a week. Seven in the following month. 20,000 euros plus. And so it was clear: I would have to fly with them. 😂

What I experienced there was something completely different to what I had expected. I am a coach. I know personal development. I thought it would be quite relaxed. Spoiler: It wasn't.
Tom grabbed me - not in a figurative sense, but REALLY.
Grappling in the meadow.
Cold water.
Physical energy work.
2 steaks every day.

He mirrored me blatantly.
He hit my weak points to show me where and how I limit myself.

I sensed aspects of myself that I'd been suppressing for ages.
Definitely very overwhelming... and I was sometimes really scared of the next grappling session.
That's exactly where Tom came in. He didn't let up. Didn't leave me alone when I wanted to hide.

That wasn't easy. But it worked. I learned to get out of my head and into my body. To be more present. And what was (almost) impossible for me before: solving headaches ON THE SAME DAY - without tablets.
Simply by being physically present. Back to myself. Through bodywork.

Now I'm eating a steak at home and feel like I've been beamed back to Mallorca - to that wild, intense, powerful time. Tom has cracked me open. In the best sense of the word.

To be honest, I would never have flown there without this deal.
And I would never have known what I would have missed out on.

Thanks.

I came across Tom and Self Mastery by chance (or fate?) during a very difficult phase in which everything was simply in chaos, both privately and professionally. Caught up in my thought carousel and the feeling of hopelessness, Tom not only helped me to bring structure to it, but also to recognize who I am, what I want deep down inside, what blockages are holding me back and how I can overcome them. Since last week, everything has been happening in quick succession. My manifestations have materialized, my professional ideas are now almost exactly as I wanted them to be and my relationship has also improved significantly. During our 1-to-1 sessions with the Self Mastery Method, I had some touching and profound experiences that have enriched me greatly. Tom manages to make complex inner processes understandable and enable transformation. I was particularly impressed by his calm, empathetic but also determined manner and the passion he puts into his work. For me, a clear recommendation with all my heart!

I had been thinking and analyzing for a long time.

But I kept coming back to the same conclusion: I didn't want to carry on with my life the way it was. There were some big things I wanted to change, as the consequences for my behavior were getting bigger and bigger.

But every time I tried, I found myself back in old patterns of behavior shortly afterwards ...

I didn't know what was happening inside me and why. I often didn't feel "strong" enough to sustainably create the life I wanted. Or to even know exactly what I wanted in life in many areas.

I have been a client of Tom's for 5 months now. I've booked a few coaching sessions in my life, but never before have I had the same experience as with Tom. Tom takes my issues very seriously, is extremely well-read when it comes to different psychological approaches and, most importantly for me, he has experienced and felt the things he talks about himself.

It currently feels as if I can look deeper and deeper into myself. Which is often uncomfortable at first, but I can now understand why I kept running into blockages when I wanted to change something. Thanks to this understanding, I can now change step by step with someone with experience at my side.

I also have the feeling that I am slowly starting to know what I want and am building up the strength and knowledge to create my dream life without having to ignore or pretend.

Tom also teaches me the basic principles behind everything that goes on deep subconsciously on a psychological level and how I can deal with myself from a mindset perspective. Tom has done a great job of systematizing and simplifying these principles. With this knowledge and these systems, I should be able to take care of myself mentally and develop myself further in the future.

In conclusion, I think Tom is one of the best mentors I have had the privilege of having by my side and I have never met anyone in my life who cares as much about client success as Tom does.

So if you want lasting change in your life and you're okay with it getting deep and intense, then I highly recommend Tom!

I became aware of Tom on Instagram. I saw a video of him describing his past and how he lives today.
The story inspired me so much that I thought, wow, he knows what he's talking about.
And he totally does! I've been with him for almost 3 months now and I have to say that I've been able to understand and get to know so many things about myself better through coaching with Tom, which has finally made me feel really good. I can simply discuss everything with him and it feels so incredibly good when he coaches me. He does really fascinatingly good work. I look forward to learning from him every time.

Thank you Tom!

And thanks to Falk for your contact around the coaching.

Dear Tom, dear readers,

I would like to take this opportunity to say a big thank you.
I started working with Tom when I was in a very bad emotional state. My feelings were weighing heavily on me in everyday life and I didn't know how to deal with them.

Tom's calls helped me enormously: his input gave me new insights, fresh impressions and valuable perspectives. For the first time, I was able to really understand myself - to recognize the causes of my inner pain and learn how to deal with it better.

I was finally able to tackle and resolve many issues that had been bothering me for a long time.
It is important to communicate openly, honestly and transparently - this is the only way real change can take place. Anyone who comes with the expectation that Tom will perform magic will be disappointed. He is not a magician, but a guide: someone you should really open up to in order to get the right input and actively work on yourself.

Every minute you talk to Tom is precious. Use the time to take away as much as possible!
I can highly recommend working with Tom to anyone who wants to develop personally, who wants to break out of their current patterns and create a new, more powerful self - and who is ready to see the world from a new perspective.

In every single session with Tom, I have gained insights that I would probably never have achieved on my own.
Therefore my clear recommendation: Work with Tom - it's worth it!

Thank you, Tom, for using your knowledge and energy to really help other people. It is a gift that cannot be taken for granted.

In my previous jobs as a coach, we had training days at more or less regular intervals where external speakers brought us closer to their core topics. Tom was one of these speakers at the time.
His presence was the reason why I decided to quit about a year earlier.
It was one of the BEST decisions I could have made at the time.
I knew as soon as I started my own business and was looking for a coach myself, it would be Tom. If someone stays in the back of my mind for that long and accelerates my transformation by at least 1 year through a live votrag... what is possible in direct 1 to 1 collaboration?
So the bar was DAMN high.
And yet this person managed to go one better.
Incredibly scientific.
Incredibly human.
Incredibly warm.
With a pinch of magic and crazy

That's how I would describe working with Tom.

And he tells you without batting an eyelid when you're spouting absolute BS.
Within 3 months, he helped me to rediscover my core and fully embrace it as a part of me.
And by the way, with a small bet that Tom suggested, I recouped three times the original investment within a few weeks.

I'm curious to see what else is possible.
But so far, thanks Tom 🫶

I became a customer of Tom's for the first time in 2020 and can say with a clear conscience that customer care has always been a top priority for him.

That was also the reason why I contacted Tom again years later.
I am writing this little review now because I am grateful to Tom for his continued commitment to the success and growth of his clients.

I came to him with extreme dissatisfaction and an inner emptiness, the causes of which we found out and worked on.

The bottom line is that I can only emphasize once again that I am very satisfied and have grown enormously. That's why I decided to extend our collaboration.

Do you believe in magic? I actually don't ...

Nevertheless, working with Him feels exactly like magic! He gives you the opportunity to see things in simplicity that are incredibly complicated in the outside world, but which find their resolution and absolute truth with the right order.

Whether you have blockages in your business, disappointment in your private life, doubts about yourself or others, he always has exactly the right answer or the right roadmap to resolve these things permanently and sustainably. This is where it gets deep and this journey with Tom has shown me that as long as the wallet is right, I want this person by my side forever as my sparring partner, because trust me, if you read this, you will crack the code of life together with him much faster and in the end we all have only one thing left and that is time! and we should spend it being happy.

Thank you Tom and thank you for walking this path for us to help us today. !

I was on the road with Tom twice for a total of three months, whereby he was primarily a guest mentor the first time. What I found particularly inspiring and inspiring about working with Tom was that the darkest and most taboo topics and facets were simply given space. This provides the basis for true transformation and is also reinforced and driven by it. The safe framework, which allowed the participants to show everything about themselves, is a prerequisite for really releasing blockages and issues and recreating your life. From a space of authenticity. Even though it can be very challenging to be confronted with your shadows and Tom can sometimes push you to your limits, you can feel that he does this with the best intentions and out of love for his coachees. This basis of trust creates new references in the system and ultimately leads to real freedom in your own life, if you allow yourself to do so.

If you are ready to really meet yourself and all your facets and dive into the depths, this is the right place for you. I can wholeheartedly recommend Tom. Even though he is still very young, he has immense depth, wisdom and life experience and is not afraid to be very authentic and approachable. With Tom, you not only have a sparring partner - he is also in the same boat as you, because his journey is far from over.

Thank you for the journey at Selfmastery. I am very grateful for all that has changed for me in such a short space of time 🙏.