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After 15 years in a relationship, my husband and I had accumulated a number of problems, arguments without end, and we found ourselves in a vicious circle, so to speak, in which we spun and spun. We then decided to separate. When we had one last conversation together to discuss what to do next, we decided that our long-standing relationship deserved another chance. But we knew that we needed outside help - and neutral help at that. We looked into some couples therapy and when we came across Ilona&Viktor, we immediately had a good feeling about it.
At first it was a bit strange to talk to someone online that we had never seen before.
But Ilona&Vikor quickly gave me the feeling that I could trust them and open up quickly.
During the therapy, my husband and I realized that this was about much more than just our relationship. With the help of Ilona&Viktor, we both recognized a deep pain within ourselves, so we did a lot of self-reflection at first.
I also found the individual sessions did me a lot of good,
to recognize my deep feelings and traumas and to heal them for myself.
Ilona and Viktor guided us step by step and also set us realistic goals.
We kept having relapses, and even then they always picked us up and motivated us not to give up.
The best thing is that you're not only doing something for the relationship but also for yourself! At the beginning of therapy, we were so far apart emotionally.
Today we see each other with different eyes. We see each other's pain and are partially healed (we are still on the way, but on a common path of healing)
We have many more beautiful and funny moments.
And when we have relapses, we can catch ourselves faster than we used to.
The decision to do this therapy with Ilona&Viktor was one of the best in my life.
I love my husband, and I thank Ilona and Viktor from the bottom of my heart for helping me so much during one of the hardest times in my life!
Vesa
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