Modern systemic couple therapy in the Palatinate, passionately different.
We can never look at our partnership in isolation. Our view is always guided and influenced by social norms, media events, close friends and the values from our own... childhood. Social media also trigger serious developments that shift the way we think about sexuality and partnership. This change leads to problems that are triggered, among other things, by the fact that the pursuit of perfection in all areas of life is presented as the ultimate goal. Many other factors lead to the fact that we can no longer perceive our relationship authentically and suddenly find ourselves in a crisis for which there seems to be no way out without outside help.
Save your love! This is what modern couple therapy can do
Not only partnership, but also couples therapy is subject to change, adapting to social developments. Whereas in the past people looked for someone to blame for negative developments, we as systemic couples counselors perceive modern love as a "partnership at eye level". We do not pick at the wounds of the past, but use modern therapy methods that quickly lead to success. The conversations of modern couple therapy are goal- and solution-oriented. The basic idea of modern couples therapy is to reach the goal with as few sessions as possible.
The result of couples therapy: a happy new beginning or a happy ending.
Couples therapy with a satisfactory result for those involved can often be ended after only five to eight sessions. In this case, the interval between sessions should be two to three weeks. During this time, the couple can implement the discussed solutions and observe whether the accompanying changes show the desired success. Sometimes during this time, couples also discover that a respectful separation is the path to mutual happiness.
Stop believing that things will work themselves out. Save your love.
We were completely satisfied and our problem is solved. We now have a loving relationship again and were able to get out of the vicious circle. Yes, life is too short
for a bad relationship!
A now happy couple from Darmstadt.
Very direct and clear analysis of the situation and at the same time sensitive and yet always direct guidance. It has helped us a lot! Also, the combination of face-to-face meetings and video is good and helps to make regular appointments even with greater distances.
How did we experience the consultation with the couples counselor Bernd Nickel?
A couples counselor like you could only wish for.
Already at the first meeting a positive mood was noticeable. Due to the open, free and direct manner of the couples therapist, she was quickly able to find access to us! It made it easier for us to respond honestly to the questions and tasks posed. In addition, to deal constructively with each other's statements.
Overall, it was a goal-oriented, constructive, helpful, reassuring and effective consultation, which allowed us to find the right way in a short time!
Result in everyday life?
Since then, we have been able to work together in harmony. In situations of tension we do not avoid, but communicate cooperatively. Constructive communication and criticism, learned in various techniques, often prevents a crisis situation from arising in the first place!
The harmonious atmosphere increases the pleasure in life and the joy for each other and on each other.
Doris and Michael from Frankenthal
We turned to the consultant couple Doris and Bernd Nickel because I had problems which had a strong impact on our partnership.
The counseling was very beneficial for me. I could talk about all my worries and problems. All that I said was not new to my husband, but through the guiding conversation and targeted questions from the consultant couple, it was possible to structure the problems and work through them little by little. I also learned some of my husband's thoughts that I had not known before. That was good.
The consultant couple showed us approaches to work on our problems ourselves instead of prescribing ready-made solution patterns.
So I learned that there are always several points of view and that I feel much better when I open up more and am honest with myself, no matter what outsiders say.
The biggest change is evident in my thinking. By broadening my perspective, I can allow for other life plans. I no longer cling so stubbornly to my former idea, but can now make friends or come to terms with other views. As a result, I live more easily.
I have taken up ideas from Mrs. Nickel and pursued them further. After a certain time, my husband has noticed that I have become more relaxed again. Our life together is more fun again.
Conclusion: After the consultation we are much better off than before. We would take up such a consultation with the advisor pair Doris and Bernd nickel again and again.
Susanne and Dietmar from Worms
As already often read in the reviews. Her clear manner has already put us much further on a better path than we ever thought! We found the couples therapy effective and efficient, also the flexible handling of presence and online meetings.
A good investment for the future. When we booked an appointment digitally at Systemic Couples Counseling Nickel, our relationship was about to end. Now we are a happy couple.
Carlsberg and Wiesbaden are just under 90km away. This trip was also worth it.
Maria and Hans
We are reporting now with a time delay, because we wanted to let a few weeks pass after the couples therapy. We can now state that the solutions found in the couples therapy were implementable and have a lasting effect. We can now give our evaluation from the heart. The journey and the time as well as the investment were worth it. Maike and Markus R.
With our couple therapist Mr. Nickel, combine clarity, calm, professionalism and charisma. We were quick on the point. And we found a good solution. Thank you for assuring us that you would be available to us for other issues in our couple relationship! The trip from Wiesbaden to Carlsberg was worth it. We can really genuinely recommend Mr. Nickel. It was a crisis intervention that worked. Veronika and Karl. B
We treated ourselves to an intensive couple's weekend (8 hours) with Bernd Nickel. The appointment booking was also possible at short notice and completely uncomplicated. We were accompanied very competently and have worked out solutions together from which we will benefit in the long term. Mr. Nickel is an experienced coach who competently recognizes the situation and personal concerns and guided us as a couple in a goal-oriented manner. We can unreservedly recommend the consultation and would consult him again at any time.
Simply TOP. I would not have believed that a counseling session can be so effective. Everything was good, with system, solution and resource oriented. The crisis intervention as intensive couple counseling was worth the money. For this I thank Mr. Nickel, I will recommend him. We are a happy couple again. Regina and Rolf from near Düsseldorf.
Very professional, very helpful, absolutely enriching, empathetic with lots of information, tips and techniques. I can definitely recommend Mr. Nickel. For me personally a decisive turning point, if not the turning point of my life!!! 👍🏼🍀🍀🍀
I decided to take responsibility for my happiness into my own hands and hit the bull's eye with Mr. Nickel's practice! I was able to open up completely in the intensive consultation and felt very comfortable.
Mr. Nickel helped us as a couple clearly and without party to recognize what is going on and what we can do.
Mr. Nickel is a master of his work and in addition very friendly, flexible and animal-loving, which was very sympathetic to me.
If you are willing to work on yourself, you are in good hands here!
The location is beautiful and so the consultation can be combined wonderfully with a short trip in the wine region.
Ms. Nickel was very empathetic to us and our tricky situation and gave us the feeling that she was really interested in our problem. We felt in good hands with her. With the tips for better communication, we can finally talk to each other again after a long agonizing time and even laugh together again.
Dear Mrs. Nickel,
after long and heated discussions we had decided to book a couple therapy after all. And now we say: if only we had come to you earlier! Thank you very much for your gentle and yet direct way of responding to us and our problems. And thus giving us the opportunity to accept each other again in a loving and benevolent way. From the very beginning we had the feeling that we were in good hands. Finally we can talk to each other again and look each other in the eye. We would not have been able to do this alone! Thank you.
Mr. Nickel has convinced me by a high degree of expertise , and a pleasant and professional advice. His work is accompanied by appreciation, calmness and composure. I can highly recommend the systemic consulting practice of and with Mr. Nickel.
The counseling was very helpful, although (or because) the couple counseling turned into individual counseling. Mr. Nickel helped me to find myself again by asking the right questions. A lot of things that were slumbering subconsciously were awakened. In the end, this gave me a clear view and a lot of strength.
Highly recommended, especially if you are struggling with your situation.
It is fortunate that this practice is just around the corner and does not require a long commute. I would always turn to Mr. Nickel again if I had any problems.
Thank you very much!
Ms. Nickel is a very sympathetic and dedicated consultant. She is always top prepared (often with a book tip) , has a suitable question for every evasive answer on my part and answers promptly even to questions after the sessions. I can recommend her without reservation.
E. B. from Berlin
The statement "Modern, with all your soul, with great commitment - simply passionately different!" is simply true. The couple counseling has brought us a lot. After a lot of searching on the internet, we found the website of Mr. and Mrs. Nickel thanks to the positive reviews on ProvenExpert and Google. We could see that Mr. Nickel helped us with a lot of empathy and good questions, considerations. With various interventions, texts to read and think about, we realized that you can not bend desire partners. Now, after 32 years, our relationship is more beautiful and understanding than ever and we thank her very much for that. The magic word that I have taken with me is resignative maturity. That is, not resignation, but accepting the partner's quirks, the things that cannot be changed. We also learned to descend from the apocalyptic horsemen of the love relationship and to find alternatives to it. One clarification talk and 5 sessions have changed our relationship in a positive and lasting way.
Couples counseling we do not regret. A principle of experienced couple counseling is: A problem provides its own solution. The reactions of people in difficult life situations basically contain clues for overcoming them. We were skeptical at first, but changed our minds. Mr. Nickel was not the lecturing and the smart one, but the curious one. He wanted to understand for what reason we saw some facts as a problem. The trip and the weekend was worth it. We expect that this couple counseling will be very sustainable.
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