Modern systemic couple therapy in the Palatinate, passionately different.
We can never look at our partnership in isolation. Our view is always guided and influenced by social norms, media events, close friends and the values from our own... childhood. Social media also trigger serious developments that shift the way we think about sexuality and partnership. This change leads to problems that are triggered, among other things, by the fact that the pursuit of perfection in all areas of life is presented as the ultimate goal. Many other factors lead to the fact that we can no longer perceive our relationship authentically and suddenly find ourselves in a crisis for which there seems to be no way out without outside help.
Save your love! This is what modern couple therapy can do
Not only partnership, but also couples therapy is subject to change, adapting to social developments. Whereas in the past people looked for someone to blame for negative developments, we as systemic couples counselors perceive modern love as a "partnership at eye level". We do not pick at the wounds of the past, but use modern therapy methods that quickly lead to success. The conversations of modern couple therapy are goal- and solution-oriented. The basic idea of modern couples therapy is to reach the goal with as few sessions as possible.
The result of couples therapy: a happy new beginning or a happy ending.
Couples therapy with a satisfactory result for those involved can often be ended after only five to eight sessions. In this case, the interval between sessions should be two to three weeks. During this time, the couple can implement the discussed solutions and observe whether the accompanying changes show the desired success. Sometimes during this time, couples also discover that a respectful separation is the path to mutual happiness.
Stop believing that things will work themselves out. Save your love.
Very professional, very helpful, absolutely enriching, empathetic with lots of information, tips and techniques. I can definitely recommend Mr. Nickel. For me personally a decisive turning point, if not the turning point of my life!!! 👍🏼🍀🍀🍀
I decided to take responsibility for my happiness into my own hands and hit the bull's eye with Mr. Nickel's practice! I was able to open up completely in the intensive consultation and felt very comfortable.
Mr. Nickel helped us as a couple clearly and without party to recognize what is going on and what we can do.
Mr. Nickel is a master of his work and in addition very friendly, flexible and animal-loving, which was very sympathetic to me.
If you are willing to work on yourself, you are in good hands here!
The location is beautiful and so the consultation can be combined wonderfully with a short trip in the wine region.
Ms. Nickel was very empathetic to us and our tricky situation and gave us the feeling that she was really interested in our problem. We felt in good hands with her. With the tips for better communication, we can finally talk to each other again after a long agonizing time and even laugh together again.
Dear Mrs. Nickel,
after long and heated discussions we had decided to book a couple therapy after all. And now we say: if only we had come to you earlier! Thank you very much for your gentle and yet direct way of responding to us and our problems. And thus giving us the opportunity to accept each other again in a loving and benevolent way. From the very beginning we had the feeling that we were in good hands. Finally we can talk to each other again and look each other in the eye. We would not have been able to do this alone! Thank you.
Mr. Nickel has convinced me by a high degree of expertise , and a pleasant and professional advice. His work is accompanied by appreciation, calmness and composure. I can highly recommend the systemic consulting practice of and with Mr. Nickel.
The counseling was very helpful, although (or because) the couple counseling turned into individual counseling. Mr. Nickel helped me to find myself again by asking the right questions. A lot of things that were slumbering subconsciously were awakened. In the end, this gave me a clear view and a lot of strength.
Highly recommended, especially if you are struggling with your situation.
It is fortunate that this practice is just around the corner and does not require a long commute. I would always turn to Mr. Nickel again if I had any problems.
Thank you very much!
Ms. Nickel is a very sympathetic and dedicated consultant. She is always top prepared (often with a book tip) , has a suitable question for every evasive answer on my part and answers promptly even to questions after the sessions. I can recommend her without reservation.
E. B. from Berlin
The statement "Modern, with all your soul, with great commitment - simply passionately different!" is simply true. The couple counseling has brought us a lot. After a lot of searching on the internet, we found the website of Mr. and Mrs. Nickel thanks to the positive reviews on ProvenExpert and Google. We could see that Mr. Nickel helped us with a lot of empathy and good questions, considerations. With various interventions, texts to read and think about, we realized that you can not bend desire partners. Now, after 32 years, our relationship is more beautiful and understanding than ever and we thank her very much for that. The magic word that I have taken with me is resignative maturity. That is, not resignation, but accepting the partner's quirks, the things that cannot be changed. We also learned to descend from the apocalyptic horsemen of the love relationship and to find alternatives to it. One clarification talk and 5 sessions have changed our relationship in a positive and lasting way.
Couples counseling we do not regret. A principle of experienced couple counseling is: A problem provides its own solution. The reactions of people in difficult life situations basically contain clues for overcoming them. We were skeptical at first, but changed our minds. Mr. Nickel was not the lecturing and the smart one, but the curious one. He wanted to understand for what reason we saw some facts as a problem. The trip and the weekend was worth it. We expect that this couple counseling will be very sustainable.
We went to an intensive couples counseling session. An appointment for a weekend was quickly found. We were also supported in finding a vacation apartment. At the beginning there was a free Corona test, which was negative, which gave us the opportunity to go into the talks without masks. The AHA rules were all followed. Additionally, 2 air purifiers provided safety.
Mr. Nickel showed himself to be a competent couple therapist with heart and empathy and recognized our deeper problem. The 8 hours of counseling were flexibly distributed over 3 days. It was never overloaded. At the end we had the feeling and the impression to have perceived and received an excellent consultation and took away good solution perspectives. We know currently what we have to do in our love relationship and are looking forward to our follow-up meeting in 3 months. We can recommend Mr. Nickel 100%. We will be happy to come back again. The journey of about 600km was worth it.
The consultation took place in a very calm atmosphere, Mr. Nickel seems very calm and composed as well as very well-founded in his advice. We can highly recommend the counseling, for us the counseling was helpful because we needed a neutral mediator to put our relationship back in order. No further sessions were imposed on us, we would use them again in the future if necessary.
Our experience has been very good. It is worth emphasizing here that we can get an appointment promptly by digital means. Completely uncomplicated and simple.
In bright and quiet premises I felt immediately in good hands. At
We quickly got to the point where the problem is. Clearly clear and at the same time humanly close. In the corona time, the hygiene rules are observed and one feels safe here as well.
My experience: now to work directly on the problem solution-oriented, without months of couples counseling. 6 hours have led to a sustainable solution.
I was convinced by the clarity, precision of the analysis and vividness of the examples and perspectives. Anyone who is open to clear words and blunt truth is in good hands with Mr. Nickel. Whoever is looking for the right answers and real change can find reinforcement here. I was able to take a few guiding principles with me, which have since carried and embraced me and which make the next steps much easier.
For me, this couples counseling was disappointing. While Mr. Nickel confirmed my wife in living out her freedom without guilt, he recommended that I let go, endure the suffering associated with it for me, and emerge stronger. I also found the tip to visit a swingers club unhelpful. Not recommended
After 25 years, 18 of them as a married couple, we decided to discuss our common open issues in our partnership with a couples counselor.
The discussions with Bernd Nickel took place in a very good and for my wife and me safe atmosphere. We both found the questions asked by Mr. Nickel and the thoughts that he set free, the spoken and unspoken help, to be very good. Each of us certainly in his own way, with his own new impressions.
There was explicitly no "it must", but many actually open-ended ways. We would not have found these ways on our own without the conversation (or the two conversations Sat/Sun), let alone considered them for ourselves.
We have received a lot of suggestions through Mr. Nickel, which are important for my wife, for me and for our relationship. As described - we did not get a "solution" and no "should/must/...". And we both found that to be absolutely fine. We are looking forward to it and are happy to have new impulses and ways forward after a very good 25 years.
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