Hello Florian, I would be happy to write you a detailed experience report.
I'll start in the middle... At the beginning of 2023, my wife separated from me for the second time... And, as you can imagine, it tore the rug out from under my feet. Not because I couldn't deal with the pain... But because I realized that she wasn't going to change her mind again.
Not after the couples therapy and the subsequent failed attempt! I think I found out about Florian and his team via YouTube back then. And I was skeptical at first... It all sounded far too good to be true.
I just couldn't imagine that it was possible for us to lead a happy and, above all, carefree life as a couple again.
I was afraid of investing even more time and money in this situation, which I found impossible to resolve, in addition to the separation. But I'm so glad I did it after all. We've officially been back together since June 2023 and things are going much better than before.
What helped me the most? The deep reappraisal of the relationship.
I always thought I understood my wife. But I was only able to understand the separation and the real feelings that kept triggering these thoughts of separation after I had worked through them. And I think that's also the key to why the new beginning worked this time. Because together we developed an approach that suited me and our situation. It doesn't pretend to be something that isn't, but really changes something.
In me, in my behavior, in my ability to have a relationship and, of course, in my wife.
What caused me difficulties? I don't know how much I'm allowed to reveal here, but the letter we wrote to my wife at the end really bothered me at first. I had already written her several messages and letters and had never really been successful. (Some of them were ignored) That's why I wasn't so enthusiastic. I found it difficult to fully trust her at this point. But I have to admit that this letter is also the one that excites me the most. Because it brings everything together and sets the whole mechanism of this approach in motion.
Florian and I spent hours rounding off this letter with the help of all the information we had gathered about me, my wife and our relationship. And it became special! No endless blah blah blah, I'm sorry, please take me back, begging... But just two pages at eye level that really had an effect on her, so that she was finally able to rethink things.
Because no matter what I tried before, she always reduced me to the past and associated pain and suffering with me. And so, of course, it couldn't work. I didn't just feel this change, she openly communicated that the letter had slightly opened her "closed door" again for the first time. And she was able to see me with different eyes again for the first time during this period. (Yes, I told my wife that I had gotten help!)
Otherwise I wouldn't be writing a review here.
But I am happy to do so, because without you, dear Florian, I would certainly have given up and NOT have my dear wife with me now. Thank you very much for everything.
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