We were there for a separation mediation.
My former partner and I have a daughter together.
In the conversation, Ms. von Saldern repeatedly said sentences such as "I am neutral, but my opinion is ..." and thus did not maintain her neutrality.
The highlight was when she compared emotional stress situations for children with dog training.
When asked how we should explain to our daughter that she can't go with mom or dad now, the mediator's answer was "Oh, that's like dogs, you tell them three times and then they understand".
Highly professional ... divorce is not just divorce. There is no template, no standard procedure. Ms. v. Saldern responds to individual peculiarities, understands how to empathically intervene in emotionally critical situations and how to get back to the core of the matter.
Personally, I can make the comparison and can express my unreserved appreciation and the associated thanks to Ms. von Saldern for her support in a difficult phase of life. Absolutely recommendable!
I would like to thank you very much for the impressive and promising conversation. For what feels like an eternity, my husband and I have been able to get along with each other again. I can hardly describe in words the ballast you have taken off my soul. I have slept well for the first time in weeks. Thank you so much! Although you didn't know us, you displayed incredible sensitivity and empathy that I could only marvel at. You got my husband to listen, talk and engage with a topic for three hours. A masterstroke!
I am now again in good spirits that my husband and I will find a solution that we can both live with well. So you have not only helped to ensure that our future, albeit separate, has peaceful prospects, but also that our 18 years together will be remembered fondly. That was infinitely important to me.
For me, the agreement reached with you is acceptable and I will gladly sign it.
Once again, thank you very much for your commitment!
My husband and I are - or better: were - in a separation situation in which no real "dialogue" had been possible for months (or years?) and the vast majority of things/situations were perceived or evaluated very differently by us. Likewise, we had very different ideas about how the future care and living situation of the children should look like after the divorce. Ms. von Saldern, with her great psycholgoschical intuition, her affectionate manner and in a mediation meeting characterized by a high degree of professional competence and absolute impartiality, created an atmosphere free of accusations in just a few hours, in which the important issues could be quickly brought to a common denominator in a goal-oriented manner and without "lazy compromises". We signed the subsequent separation agreement without a single request for change. We are confident that we will be able to maintain a respectful and friendly relationship in the future. So at this point, a heartfelt thank you to Ms. von Saldern!"
It probably doesn't need to be said that a separation is a drastic experience. But I am very grateful that we happened to come into contact with Ms. von Saldern. From the very beginning I felt in good hands with her and she dealt with my problems in an empathetic yet solution-oriented way. She managed in the mediation session that we were able to work out a reasonable agreement in a very short time. The whole thing was accompanied professionally and emotionally great. Thank you very much!"
We were at a point where we were racing towards a war of the roses at a crazy pace, which was my absolute nightmare given our two young daughters. I could see no way out ... It is incredible what Fr. v. Saldern accomplished in so few hours of divorce mediation. We have a basis to be parents together again. I am just so, so grateful! It is impressive with what incredible presence, professionalism, empathy and wisdom Fr. v. Saldern worked with us.
Ms. von Saldern managed through positive atmosphere, professional competence and skillful leadership to find the common denominator and reach a mutual agreement despite the naturally sometimes divergent interests in a divorce. Many thanks.
"After we decided to get divorced, we - thank God - went through mediation with Ms. v. Saldern. With the result that we actually got along with one lawyer and court date and probably saved a lot of money (if I compare it with friends). And the children seem to take it less badly than expected..."
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