fernliebe

Good day,
Thank you very much for your review. But unfortunately you describe functions and conditions that do not apply to our site at all.

1.) You write: "you are assured that the woman is interested in you".
This is not true and has not been communicated anywhere.
If a lady "shows interest" by clicking on the heart in the profile of a man, an automatic info email is sent about it.
This is exactly how it is described in the menu item "Functions":
https://fernliebe.eu/de/funktionen

2.) You write: "you get great photos and maybe one or two video chats...":
Not true. Is this perhaps talking about another dating portal?
We do not offer video chats on our site. And we don't send photos of ladies either.
If he gets more photos from a lady, she sent them to him. And we have nothing to do with communication between users.

3.) You write: "...they are paid per sms and picture via Whatsapp or Viber...":
Where do these out of the air statements come from? We have nothing to do with the ladies and their private communication channels. It is probably very easy to make up such things or to deduce them from a failed communication. But this has nothing to do with reality.
We do not have a system where the user pays per message / SMS.
We have no influence on the behavior of the ladies. Just like you, they find our site, register and use the site when, as often, and how long they want. It is like in real life. Either a lady wants to communicate, to get to know a certain man or she does not want to.
How the communication proceeds, whether and which contact details (e-mail, Whatsapp, SMS, etc.) are exchanged and how long the communication proceeds depends solely on the two people. Even whether interest is lost at a certain point has nothing to do with our services. We only offer the opportunity to make contact.

The success in getting to know each other depends of course on many factors: Among other things, the texts and pictures of one's profile, the content of the first message, the demands on the lady, the lady's idea of her dream partner, etc. In general, the differences in mentality should not be underestimated.

Thank you very much for your opinion.
Of course, it is a pity that you had such an experience. But we do not use decoys / fake profiles also from moral aspects:
Our users mostly sign up with hopes and desires. They wish for what each of us wishes for: a loving partner for a common future.
As a singles exchange, we have a moral obligation to provide the services offered in the best possible way. We want to provide our users with true added value and get this back with recommendations and reputation.
Dissatisfied users look for alternatives to get to know each other online and migrate.
And if it turns out that you have fraudulent intentions as a singles exchange, the damage is irreparable. In the age of the Internet, word gets around quickly. The users will avoid the dating site and a dating portal without users can stop its service directly.

We know that the dating industry has a bad reputation. There are some dubious providers, but you should not think this of all portals.

We have no influence on the behavior of the ladies. Just like you, they find their way to our site, register and use it when, as often, and as long as they want. It is like in real life. Either a lady wants to communicate, get to know a certain man or she doesn't want to.

Of course, the success in getting to know depends on many factors: Among other things, the texts and pictures of one's profile, the content of the first message, the demands on the lady, the lady's idea of her dream partner, etc. In general, the differences in mentality should not be underestimated.
In our blog we regularly give tips about this. Our support also helps with questions about your own profile and communication with the ladies.