Viola Heller, Mentorin für Single Ladies

For me, the coaching with Viola was a really great experience! I was able to gain a lot of clarity and now understand that finding love is no coincidence, but just like everything else in life, with the right know-how and a clear direction, it's really easy!

Viola responds to all questions with calm and composure and always provides valuable input or looks at things from a different perspective.

The best thing I have taken away from coaching is the confidence that I am good just the way I am. I kept doubting myself and asking myself whether I had too high expectations. I got away from the constant thoughts of what I was doing wrong. I am good the way I am and my path is good the way it is.
I am very grateful to Viola for this mirror and these insights.
She was always by my side and gave me support and confidence even in challenging times - simply THANK YOU!

I felt comfortable, understood and in good hands with Viola. I particularly like her direct and honest manner. Viola sees many things from a different angle and thus enabled me to change my perspective, which was very helpful. A big, big thank you! :)

Mentoring with Viola was a wonderful experience and helped me a lot with my personal development.

I have learned that...
- I can shape my relationship model the way it suits me and I don't have to live the classic model.
- there are good men and I don't have to cling to the one
- I can be who I am and that it feels very satisfying.

I've become much clearer and more determined and can communicate much more openly, which feels good.
I have a dating strategy that works for me. I've realized that online dating works well for me. It has made me much more relaxed.
I don't gossip, I'm honest when I don't like someone and I get positive feedback in return.
I look for more things that make me feel really good and nourish me.

I feel more at home with myself, recognize my needs better and am also better at setting boundaries.
I can deal with negative situations much better, which has given me a new sense of security that my wish for a suitable man will come true.
I have also become fundamentally more open and now give people a chance that I would have rejected before.

I have fundamentally gained strength, courage and self-confidence.

i am very satisfied because i have become aware of the vip moments through the love academy. i always knew when i was at my best i could carry this to the outside world and through the love academy i have learned to consciously strive for this. thank you very much.

Viola has once again been a great companion on my journey to the harmonious relationship at eye level that I desire. She gives a lot of valuable impulses, food for thought and responds individually to her clients. I could see how not only I, but also the characteristics of who suits me, have developed further. I now enjoy dating (which definitely wasn't the case before) and can now stay on almost effortlessly. On my last few dates, I've even managed to stay completely with myself and continue to notice my body's sensations and signals during the date. Since almost everything in life is a relationship, working with Viola affects so much more than just the area of dating.

You can rely on Viola. She is very calm and always takes me seriously in every situation. I feel supported and individually well looked after by her. The contact is good for me and she sensitively helps me to change my perspective. A lot has already changed for me.

I have learned ...

...to see and feel myself again. I have the feeling that a veil has been lifted, both internally and externally
...to do something good for myself and enjoy the VIP moments - I had never done that in recent years

- ...to stay true to myself when dating and to be brave and say exactly what I want. For example, that I don't want to spend the whole evening together, but want to leave after a coffee.

- ...to get away from old patterns. I used to convince myself that something wasn't so important after all, just to make it fit. Now I focus more on myself and am aware of who really suits me.

- ...how I can deal well with my feelings and doubts, even when my self-esteem takes a dive. Then I can ground myself again and rebuild trust in myself.

Thank you so much for everything and I wish you continued success. You have a great way of dealing with us single women and getting the best out of us ;0)

Best regards, Steffi

Viola opened my eyes to the fact that I can educate myself about love just as I can in other areas of life. And that the type of man I want is not necessarily the one who suits me. I was able to go through a number of realization processes with Viola. She guided me through them with sound background knowledge, empathy, a lot of humor and in a holistic way. In addition, I was given many new tools with which I can continue to release inner beliefs, old patterns and entanglements (for example with ex-boyfriends and parents). I haven't found my 'dream man' yet, but I have a strategy - which includes ups and downs - that makes me believe much more that there is a suitable partner for me too. Thank you, Viola!

Through coaching with Viola, I have gained clarity about who I am, who suits me and I feel encouraged that I am good the way I am.



I wish I had done coaching like this earlier because it gave me much more concrete tools and strategies, such as the funnel method in dating.

I've learned how valuable it is to move forward in small steps. Before, I always demanded big steps from myself, was hard on myself and then gave up again.


Viola and I were a great match. I particularly appreciated the fact that she was always present and completely with me. She's very aware of what's going on. Viola is authentic and genuine and I always had the feeling that she had experienced the challenges herself and knew exactly what I was talking about, which made the process very valuable. Thank you!!!

The coaching helped me a lot to find out exactly what I want and to be clear about it. I have become more self-confident and enjoy dating and sticking to it! Viola is a wonderful person for me! She is not judgmental and supports me in all my questions. I found it brilliant that I was allowed to write to her at any time, which was especially helpful before and after the dates when I had questions and uncertainties. Viola was happy for me and shared my excitement. That was wonderful! I recommend every single woman to work with Viola! My coaching is now finished and I miss her very much! ❤️🙏🏻

Thanks to the coaching, I am more aware of my patterns and have a good structure and tools at hand to avoid always doing the same loops.
I'm at a different point today and can deal with challenges in a more relaxed way, which I wouldn't have been able to do a year ago. I feel braver, have more self-confidence and can make better decisions.
What I appreciated about our work together was that Viola is very flexible and can react spontaneously to whatever is happening. I would definitely recommend her to others.

Viola is a wonderful, inspiring and committed coach and mentor who can work both in a very structured and spontaneous way. We were immediately on the same wavelength and I was able to openly discuss all the topics that were on my mind with her. In addition to the coaching calls, she supported me within a very short time via chat and voice message. Overall, I can say that the coaching was very supportive, tailored to my needs and I really enjoyed it. Many thanks to Viola! I can highly recommend her!

I found Viola and her work to be very competent. Viola is authentic, emphatic and is good at recognizing where you need support. She uses helpful questions to get you to the answers you are looking for. She works in a very needs-oriented way and is always there for you like a best friend during the time we work together. I was able to build up trust in her immediately, as I very quickly realized that firstly she works professionally and secondly she has a lot of experience in the subject. I felt supported and cared for by her and was able to create a good basis for love during this time :-) I am delighted to have met Viola and would warmly recommend her to any single lady who wants to participate constructively in her love life.

I am very grateful to have chosen to work with Viola. She helped me to recognize hidden patterns and trigger points and to deal with them differently than usual. This has had a lasting effect on both my dating and my everyday life.

- I kept at it and didn't give up
- I learned a lot during a difficult time

Viola was recommended to me by a friend. The wavelength was right when we met for our free initial consultation. Viola was able to grasp my issues directly and had ideas about what
input could help me. We also agreed on a price, as the first offer would have exceeded both my needs and my budget. I am glad to have opened myself up to the topic of love with support after many attempts on my own had not been crowned with success. After a short time (approx. 4 weeks), a casual contact with an acquaintance via my
a wonderful relationship developed from a casual contact with an acquaintance via my Instagram network 😊 Thank you Viols for helping me to love myself
and to finally let myself be loved.

To be honest, I was very skeptical at first and wasn't really open because I had already done so much personal development and therapy for myself. I was convinced that there just wasn't the right partner out there for me.

Viola managed - partly with Tough Love - to make me trust myself again. To believe my own perceptions and intuition and not question them over and over again. Only now do I really know what it means to let myself in and allow love to happen, as there were still some protective walls that I had built up over the years but no longer saw for myself.

Yes, it's not an easy process, because thanks to Viola's empathetic but also demanding guidance, I have once again examined myself from all sides. But: it was also fun, we laughed together and also cried together - Viola is fully involved in the process, so that I always felt understood and in good hands. But she's also very different to a good friend who might sometimes treat you with kid gloves.

Now, after many years, I have finally met a man who is just right for me. Where I am ready for love, where I give myself and where the man shows himself in all his facets. I wouldn't have thought that there really is such a type of man ... Of course it's not always all sunshine and roses. We also have our stressful moments, but we talk about them openly, give ourselves space to retreat and can let love grow bit by bit.

It wasn't love at first sight, which I longed for for a long time, but a very tender, cautious start. But now it feels all the deeper.

Viola, you have performed a small miracle for me - I no longer believed in it. Thank you for your support, for challenging me and sometimes for simply helping me to write a message when I was completely blocked (help, what should I say?).

I have learned so much through you, but above all to trust myself again. Thank you for being there and I wish all the single ladies out there that they have you by their side as their companion. Then it can really work out with the love I've been longing for.