I never thought I would take such a coaching course. At first I was very skeptical whether it could help me to improve my success with women.
But first to my person:
I am in my mid-twenties and a mechanical engineering student. The funny phrase "plaid shirt and sperm jam - I'm studying mechanical engineering" unfortunately has (had) a sad reality. In general, I was a bit later in the game when it came to women. I met my first girlfriend at the age of 21. The relationship lasted 1.5 years. After that it looked rather meager. Due to my study environment and my but rather of men through-drawn circle of friends, I met only a few women and had no idea how I could change that.
Coaching? - Okay, but with whom?
Many who are in the above situation have probably spent as much time as I have watching other men succeed with women on YouTube. One of those YouTubers was Erlwin, and I thought his style was cool right off the bat. He didn't seem to be following a scam, he was just being himself. At some point, I was so tired of being passive behind the screen that I scraped together some money and booked a 3-day coaching session with Elwin.
I was very nervous because I knew: now boundaries were going to be blown. What happened on that day was really blatant and still triggers heat waves in me. Elwin came to my area and we met in Cologne. He is a very easy-going guy and we got along really well right away. After loosely getting to know each other over a good cup of coffee, we got going.
Elwin is a man of action and does the things he asks me to do. Quite casually, he walked up to two girls and approached them. They were happy about the attention. Already I thought to myself, "Okay. They're not laughing at him at all." Shortly after, it was my turn. "Them! Let's go!" I knew I wasn't getting out of this one. I approached them and.... Bingo! She was delighted.
By the end of the day, I couldn't tell you how many women I had approached and realized, "I'm still alive. An incredible feeling!
Possibly this day was one of the most important of the coaching and for my personal development. The conversations with Elwin are personal and often very emotional. He is very empathetic and also lets me share his life, which made it even easier for me to open my heart. We talked a lot about things that may have prevented deeper relationships with women on an emotional level. The essence was really beautiful and can hardly be written down here.
The last day of coaching was already a bit more routine, which really sounds unbelievable when I consider that it would hardly have been possible for me to approach a woman before. Elwin again got everything out of me and brought me into the most embarrassing situations, which should be a lesson for me that NOTHING HAPPENS and you still LIVE at the end, but a large piece of experience is richer.
I only recommend to everyone who thinks he is in a dead end to do this coaching with Elwin. It has moved mountains for me! Recommendation!