Tahara Presser-Velder is a very pleasant, calm, emphatic personality who is very committed to her clients and facilitates the situation of those affected with many tips and tricks. She helped me through a very difficult time and was there for me when things got really bad for me and my world collapsed (separation after 25 years of a happy relationship for me, suddenly single parent with 2 grieving girls who missed their dad in everyday life and in parallel with the start of the lockdown + the care for my seriously ill transplanted mother during this time). Increase for me almost no longer possible! And then nicely continue to function, so that one can still hold the job and the home of the children. I'm over it now, I'm certainly not completely healed yet, but on the way there. And hopefully I have not become an abandoned, frustrated old woman. I have learned a lot in this time and I have become stronger. I lost a lot (husband, my idea of family and my future, part of my family, and "best" friends, but my positive outlook on beautiful things, beautiful moments with loved ones, and most of all delicious food (self-care) I never completely lost. Thank you for the many hours you gave me, for the kind words of encouragement when I got stuck again and for your angel patience when I got stuck again and for all the great tips. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️! Simply great. I will think of her and her words with pleasure! All the best and love for you too! Best regards from Southern Germany Martina B.
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I was very happy to hear your words!
They really touched me and reinforced my person-centered approach as the basis of my work: Aithenticity, unconditional appreciation, empathy and acceptance are an indispensable basis for accompanying and empowering people in the form of counselling.
Experiencing and contributing to clients feeling accepted, understanding the meaning of their actions and then gradually developing alternatives that not only exist in my head as a solution scenario, but that can also be felt as a solution and feel coherent, is extremely valuable to me as a counselor. It is also enriching for me to be encouraged along this path as a consultant.
I myself am overwhelmed that it is possible to build such a good relationship and a safe space in virtual space and that it is possible to give people the opportunity to open up and develop their own solutions even in consultations that were initially "involuntary" as a requirement.
Max , I am so pleased that you benefited so much from the counseling and that you were able to take so much away with you in such a short time (only 5 hours).
I am very confident that you will be able to take these impulses on board in the rest of your life and lead a meaningful and authentic life for yourself.
If you ever get to a point where you feel "stuck", which is quite natural in life, you can always come back to me. The fact that you share your experience so openly is a great gift for me, also because it allows other potential clients to gain an insight into what successful counseling can feel like.
All the best for the future!
Tahara