After 2 months of trauma work with Alexander Bohley, I am more than satisfied. Why?
I'll try to describe that in detail now:
I am 43 years old and have been working on my issues for 20 years. I was last with a coach who also does "inner child healing". Before that I was in behavioral therapy and about 10 or 11 years ago I was also in psychotherapy.
I have to say in advance that a completely different "vibe" immediately developed with Alexander. I immediately felt at ease with him. This was partly due to his relaxed and authentic manner and partly to the fact that he did not want to change me and did not judge me. He didn't put a label on me, he just showed me absolute understanding. This allowed me to open up immediately and a connection was made ("Deep Connect Method"). You can tell in every sentence that Alexander himself has healed from trauma and that he has been through trauma hell himself. This makes him a role model in a way, but also someone who knows what he is talking about. Not from theory, but from practice. This creates security and trust, and Alexander is also very "conscious" ("Spyral Dynamic"). You can learn so much from him, not just about trauma, but about life as a whole. He is not only a great trauma therapist, but also the best life coach. He always takes his time and you always have the feeling of being something special. Not just one of many. I didn't have this feeling during my last coaching session (M.B.). I had the feeling that it was more about money and that I was just a number. I also noticed the whole time we were getting to know each other that Alexander had enough "requests". He really wanted to find out whether we were a good match and I never had the feeling of a sales pitch. I had never experienced that before. Alexander has the utmost integrity, is open and honest. He deals with all topics openly and you can feel that. He also deals openly with his own weaknesses and "mistakes" from the past. That creates trust.
In the work itself, Alexander was absolutely clear and direct. I liked that very much. No "blah blah blah", but structured and clear. He has a very good feel for the dynamics of a conversation and can slow down or slow down as required. Alexander is also radically honest. If necessary, he will hold a mirror up to you. Never hurtful, but eye-opening. I needed that once. I love Alexander's friendly and direct manner! He was also the first person not to fall for my "manipulation". He recognized everything immediately and didn't go into my childhood structures. He did not comfort my 'inner child', but perceived me as an adult. That was not what I wanted at that moment, but it was what I NEEDED. He saw through all the structures immediately and got straight to the heart of the matter. He turned me completely back on myself with just a few questions. It was one eye-opener after another. I gradually became more aware of the extent of my traumas and my structures. I now believe that no one other than Alexander could have helped me.
After 2 months, I couldn't be more satisfied. It is and remains a journey and I still have a long way to go, but the most important step has been taken. I can feel proud again, have found myself again and rediscovered access to myself and my feelings.
I am finally happy, optimistic and confident again. There is more acceptance, even if I still feel bad at times. I feel more secure, both with myself and in relationships. I am alive! As I'm writing this, I have tears of joy in my eyes. Because that's what I was missing, the aliveness!
I feel deep gratitude!
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