I had a respectful and appreciative conversation, without trying to gloss over the facts and reality. There are some opportunities that companies offer all the time (for teambuilding, to increase performance, etc.), but if you just pretend, nothing will ever change, if you do not treat people with respect at eye level (responsibility / duty of care?), it is a "nice time out". I can recommend Mr. Laggner to people who really want to change something. Thank you, you have saved my life!